As I think about it. I almost feel like a sucker for getting into the position I am now. My sister explained it to me through her view of the situation: They acted PC (him and his family), but now that you're married into the family they feel they can be who they really are and there's nothing you can do about it.

I've found that the rest of my husbands immediate family are not who I thought they were either when we went to GA for the Thanksgiving weekend. On the Friday after Thanksgiving I avoided them all because they were talking about how the worlds ailments were directed toward them because they are white Catholics. His father continually bullied my 2 year old son by taking things away from him and saying, "I got it, it's mine now, Ha Ha." While holding the item just out of my sons reach.  Then continued to watch my son get upset and even cry while he kept telling him "finders keepers" and laugh. His brother calling boys with long hair little girls. To top it off, my husband mostly ignored being a father and got mad at me for wanting a two hour relaxing time. Please note, this was just this past weekend, imagine four days of this.

Oh, his family doesn't know I am Pagan. I have gotten one view from my husbands father on what Pagans are, "Pagans do those silly rituals and kill small animals on a daily basis. Then they bury them in their backyards." No joke, he said that. 

It tempts me to show them who I really am. I've been playing the PC game out of respect for my husband. I almost think that they might disown him if they found out, but I feel like a caged bird that's just ready to burst out to get my freedom. 

Rant over.